Note: This post was originally published November 21st of 2009. As I reviewed my entire blog, I realized how important this one is.
A "false friend" had the following on her myspace account. It's attributed erroneously to Ralph Waldo Emerson. Scholars can't agree who actually wrote it, but it doesn't really concern me. I read it years ago, but it had slipped my mind for quite a while. I think it's good to consider, though, because it's at major odds with what contemporary society considers success.
What is Success?
To laugh often and much;
To earn the respect of intelligent people
and the affection of children;
To earn the appreciation of honest critics
and endure the betrayal
by false friends;
To appreciate beauty;
To find the best
in others;
To leave the world a bit better,
whether by a healthy child,
a garden, or a redeemed soul;
To know even one life has
breathed easier
because you have lived;
This is to have succeeded.